Here's their text exchange:
"A surgery isn't birth, my dear," the photographer told the mom. "You aren’t giving birth. You are having surgery to remove your baby from your abdomen. That is not birth no matter how you swing it, and I for one don’t want to be there to take pictures of it. If you decide to give motherhood a go from the get, let me know, and we can schedule your session.”
The photog ends the conversation with: "This motherhood job is hard. If I were you I would think twice about starting such a job by cutting corners so early in the game."
How would you have responded?